Sima decided that it was time I wrote something about myself instead of being written about … so here goes …
Firstly as a quick recap, my November results haven’t changed much over the previous months except that my Kappa free light chains continue to rise again this month (3rd month running now). It was over the “normal-high” threshold. However, the more important ratio (Kappa/Lambda) was within range and an absolute value. I had increased my Revlimid dosage to 15mg from 10mg in an attempt to bring this number down but it hasn’t seemed to work as yet. The good news is that Dr Z hasn’t been overly concerned. Not sure if you all remember, but this also happened earlier this year and I had asked Dr Lonial about it then. He told me not to worry as long as the ratio was an absolute number. So, for now we’re just on a “kappa-watch” for future blood reports.
Now you’re probably all wondering why I entitled this “Do you believe in fate?” – well here’s a little story that I want to share with you all …
On November 16th, Sima and I went to a local seminar hosted by the Leukemia and Lymphoma society (LLS). The venue was in a really nice restaurant but more importantly the guest speaker was Dr Alsina from Moffitt Hospital (in Tampa). Moffitt Hospital has a large transplant unit and has a history of successful stem cell transplants. We have heard about Dr Alsina through our Myeloma research and know that she is an outstanding oncologist who specializes in Myeloma.
Anyway, at the conclusion of the seminar, which was informative, everybody started to form a Disney line to meet with Dr Alsina. You’d think after years in Florida, we’d be experts at Disney lines but instead it scared us away! We decided that we’d try and meet up with her another time. I was also flying to Boston the day after so I needed to get home to pack and get ready etc.
On Friday, November 19th, my meeting in Boston finished early. My flight wasn’t until 7pm that night and here I was done at 2:30pm! I tried to get on an earlier flight but nothing was available. Anyway, since I had time on my hands, I offered to take a colleague (Tina) from Brazil on a detour shopping trip to Walmart as she wanted to buy her son some video games for Christmas. Tina’s flight was about the same time as mine so it made sense for me to give her a ride to the airport. I dropped Tina at the terminal and made arrangements to meet her at the gates after I returned the rental car. When I got to the gate for my flight, I realized that Tina and I would not be able to connect since our gates were at opposite ends. So, here I was at Boston Airport, 3 hours early for my flight. I was scouting around looking for an electrical outlet for my laptop and also scanning for places to eat before my flight, when a familiar face caught my eye. It was a woman (now, now … it was purely by chance) and she looked just like Dr Alsina! I am sure you all know where this is headed now but I am going to continue so you can live through the moment with me …
Well, of course it didn’t make sense, I was in Boston, what was Dr Alsina doing here? I looked at the departure monitors to see if there was a flight to Tampa at a nearby gate but there wasn’t. The woman was waiting to speak to customer service so I grabbed a seat nearby hoping to get a glimpse of the name on her boarding pass (I know this sounds all shady and “stalkerish” but my motive was completely innocent). As I was waiting, I called Sima to check-in with her and the boys (and get her approval for stalking another woman!) Anyway, while I was talking to Sima, the woman started to move, so now, picture this, I was in pursuit, bag in tow, really stalking this woman and trying desperately to see her boarding pass
My saving grace is that I was on the phone with my wife while I was doing this!! Long story short, I stopped her in mid-stride and it WAS her … Now really … what is the probability of that?? She was also early from her meeting and she was catching a flight to Ft Lauderdale to meet up with her daughter.
We both had two and half hours to kill so she was nice enough to come and have a drink with me. I tried hard not to make this into a private consultation but I couldn’t help myself once in a while. Time flew by quickly and before we both knew it, our flights were boarding. It was an interesting conversation – we covered so many subjects such as: health care, current treatment, how oncology doctors deal with attachment to patients, etc. It was so amazing to have two hours of dedicated time from this well-known and respected Myeloma specialist. In particular we talked about the probability of meeting like this, all of the events that had to align so that we would meet (both our meetings finishing unexpectedly early, my detour to Walmart, my not being able to connect with my work colleague Tina at the gate in Boston). It was really freaky and obviously meant to be. Fate definitely had a hand in this meeting.
Dr Alsina and I exchanged contact information so I hope to be able to reach out to her periodically if I have questions and she seemed extremely open to that. When I got back to Orlando, I sent her a large box of supplies (leftovers from my trifusion). She was heading to Africa for missionary work so I know she will put them to good use …
So … let me ask you again … do you believe in fate???